Paikea Mediation

We don’t see things as they are. We see things as we are. ~Anais Nin

You’re in conflict. And it’s uncomfortable.

Whether you are certain that taking steps towards divorce and the completion of your marriage is where you’re headed, or you are on the fence about the best way forward, you know things need to change. If you’re here, it is likely that you are someone who has been partnered or married for more than 5 years and are experiencing conflict, seeking a heartfelt way forward.

You know that the current conflict you are experiencing was caused by years, if not decades, of unexpressed personal desires. And you’re in a place now that puts your personal desire back at the forefront of your life, so that you and your family can thrive.

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What We Do

Transformative Divorce Mediation

A process that will support you in separating consciously, intentionally and lovingly.

Relationship/Couples Coaching

Through embracing your relationship conflicts, discover the healing that is possible and the future you will co-create.

Co-parenting/Blended Family Mediation

Learn to navigate and "live well" in your new family dynamics.

Learn 7 Keys To A Conscious Relationship: Even When You’re In Conflict

Join 2000+ other couples who are choosing to use their relationship conflict to grow and find common ground with one another. Get a copy of my workbook.

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Putting Kids First in Divorce

In 2016, I joined 10 collaborative and heart-centered professionals in a journey to author a book to share a message of hope and healing through one of life’s most difficult transitions – divorce. Each of us contributed a chapter about our experiences working with families in transition and how these experiences have shaped our individual philosophies.

Since its release in January 2016, “Putting Kids First in Divorce” has become an Amazon Best Seller ranking No. 1 in the Divorce and Separation category.

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Belinda is an incredible mediator, caring and compassionate, and and excellent communicator

She helped us both to better hear and understand each other through the more difficult parts of our separation. She was very skilled at always bringing us back to what was most important- our commitment to remain great co-parents to our son. She helped us come up with creative solutions that helped meet both of our needs. We feel that we are able to more forward with dignity and respect, and to maintain a relationship that puts our son securely at the center. We will forever be grateful to Belinda for gently guiding us through this life change with her steadfast calm and commitment to a peaceful process and resolution.

M.E. 2018

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I am excellent in helping people through transitions because I love this work. And I love this work because within transitional periods there lies the possibility of great awareness, learning, and healing.

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